Things are certainly not easy in Thathouse right now. Due to the nature of my profession, work hasn't slowed down at all - it's increased as we are daily faced with new rules/regulations/health crises that need to be dealt with immediately, on top of my regular workload which hasn't slowed or adapted to the additional work, with the warning that when it does slow we'll be moved into hospitals and other clinical settings.
On top of that, like most every other kid in the country, mine are home. But mine have no guidance or direction from the schools on what to do with them. Which means on top of working 8+ hours a day, I also am in charge of keeping them occupied in a way that allows me to address the needs of millions of people, state regulatory boards, health care providers and agencies without the flexibility of doing it after the kids are asleep or before they wake up.
I admit to being resentful when friends have viral posts about taking this time to spend with your children who need you more than ever now, or who complain about having to work 4 hours a day and then post pictures of hikes and bike rides with their children, or write that they deserve an award for answering emails while helping their child with schoolwork. My kids get no hikes, no bikes, no help with work, no parent time at all during the day. Time off has been canceled, we had no spring break. My entire week is me telling my kids "no" or "I can't." Which is really hard for them to understand when I'm right there. I was commiserating with a friend when we realized we spend less time with our kids now than before they were home 24/7.
I'm trying to make it up to them on the weekend. Going device free during their waking hours so I can actually spend time with them and give them the attention they crave so much. When I heard Disney was releasing Onward on Disney+ I decided we would make a whole event of it - turning the living room into a giant pillow pit and having a slumber party while we watched it.
We went with a slumber party theme, which is their favorite. They love wearing their pajamas all day. And the movie was incredible. Maybe moreso as I watched my two boys watching it together, since it's all about brothers. If Frozen was about the love between two sisters, this is definitely the brothers' response.
As much as I'd have loved to turn the day into a movie marathon, my kids aren't great with sitting in front of a television, and having cushions all over the floor is basically just an invitation for them to wrestle until someone gets hurt. So instead of movies all day, we threw in some other pajama party classics. Like playing card games.
And eating pizza RIGHT ON THE FLOOR!
Hot Cocoa Popcorn
1/4 cup popcorn kernels (if you use microwave popcorn, skip the first and second step)
1 Tbsp butter (melted)
1 Tbsp cocoa powder
1 Tbsp powdered sugar
1/4 cup Jet Puffed Mallow Bits
- Pop popcorn kernels in airpopper, or paper bag, or however you like to pop your popcorn.
- Pour the melted butter over and toss.
- Sift cocoa powder and powdered sugar over the popcorn.
- Add Mallow Bits and toss.